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08 Sep 2022 10:05 PM - edited 08 Sep 2022 10:20 PM
08 Sep 2022 10:05 PM - edited 08 Sep 2022 10:20 PM
And you are probably very right @tyme maybe I can’t help then but I can lead by example i guess
Being in their prescence stresses me out but I hope I can model what’s good from afar
I stayed at brothers house a couple of times last week and i went home on the second night because I felt extremely uncomfortable and unsafe my 4 year old nephew who I have only met twice was running around while my brother just sat there not even caring about anything it was like being at my parents house all those years ago
Ugh I just feel sick about having to spend any time with them there’s a reason I keep an arms length from all of them, I know I’m not perfect either
and I have just been doing this all on my own because I didn’t want my partner to be involved in all of this she shouldnt have to be
Im emotionally drained
09 Sep 2022 04:36 PM
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09 Sep 2022 05:33 PM
09 Sep 2022 05:33 PM
That's great to hear @ArraDreaming .
Guess what? Last night I went to bed smiling, because I remembered something you typed a few days ago the "Hammer barn"? I JUST realised what your son meant!
09 Sep 2022 05:59 PM
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09 Sep 2022 06:15 PM
09 Sep 2022 06:15 PM
Ooooohhhhh @ArraDreaming ! Now I 'get it' even more! Is THAT where it's from - Bluey! I thought it was because the logo is a hammer - well i guess that's where Bluey got it from...such an amazing kids show.
Too cute
09 Sep 2022 07:40 PM
09 Sep 2022 07:45 PM
09 Sep 2022 07:45 PM
Do you kids every mimic Bluey and Bingo @ArraDreaming ?
My sister banned her kids from watching it because they kept mimicking the cheekiness of Bluey and Bingo....LOL
I can't say because I think i've only watched two episodes in my life.
I love how the blue on is the girl and the brown one is the boy... am I right in saying that? (Just in case I'm wrong)
09 Sep 2022 08:08 PM
09 Sep 2022 08:08 PM
@tyme they do! the youngest will run from another room when he hears the song but he’s still a bit young so just watches and the oldest’s loves it and will copy it, if there’s any game in the show he will ask us to “play bluey” with him and copy it or he’ll say “Oh biscuits!” Hahaha
they are both girls actually but you wouldnt know that when you watch it they don’t really make it clear probably on purpose
09 Sep 2022 08:18 PM
09 Sep 2022 08:18 PM
LOL @ArraDreaming - they are both girls - that shows how much I know about them! As I said, I've only watched 2 episodes or something.
One was a doctor episode and the other was a pavlova episode....too funny. Kids are funny altogether.
09 Sep 2022 08:41 PM
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