Dear @Peri
I am sorry to hear you have decided to leave, or at least take some time out. However, I totally understand your reasons, especially that of getting on with the land of the living and communicating with people in your offline life. Forum life can become pretty depressing sometimes, especially when so many here seem to be going through such a lot at present. It can be hard not to fall into the trap of caring too much about others. Especially when in reality there is nothing we can do here other than offer our support to those we care about and reassure them that they are not alone. That can get pretty difficult at times. I agree with you that virtual reality, ie forums, is somewhat strange and can be difficult for many, to connect in a meaningful way. I will say however, that I do not believe you say the wrong thing to people. I see you as a straight talker ... which I like and value very much.
Having said all that ... I respect your choice to take a break if thats what you feel you need. I really hope you can find what you want in real life. Spending time with family is important and I know you love your sons and your little granddaugher. I know you love your little doggies too, so I hope they are all well and keeping you company as they tend to do. I really hope you follow up on attempting to find some part time work ... either paid or voluntary. It gives you a sense of purpose and makes you feel worthwhile and useful.
And always know that you will be welcomed back here any time you choose to return.
Sending you some love and best wishes. I have greatly valued my opportunity of getting to know you, albeit online.
Emelia 💞
