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29-01-2023 08:11 PM
29-01-2023 08:11 PM
Re: Struggling: TW suicide
It’s a mixture of both. I sometimes cook but sometimes I eat whatever they make. Sometimes I’m more bothered, other times not so much.
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29-01-2023 08:57 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
@creative_writer - makes sense. Having been emotionally suppressed myself, I've learnt how damaging it can be.
I think that's why I speak to my nieces and nephews a lot about emotions etc.
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29-01-2023 09:28 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
I feel like parents and adults need to be mindful of how they talk about emotions with kids. They are in that sensitive period of their life and learning and absorbing so much. Healing generational trauma starts somewhere, doesn't it?
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29-01-2023 09:38 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
Most definitely @creative_writer . I absolutely agree. Suppressing emotions can be so damaging. I always thought some emotions were 'bad' and if I felt them, I was a 'bad' person. Conversely, that I should always be 'happy' and because I wasn't always happy, there was something wrong with me. This was so confusing for me. So much so that I suppressed my emotions and disconnected to protect myself. These are the unhelpful behaviours I developed.
I thought all this was 'normal'.... later on, when I could not longer stand to live, I realised this is certainly NOT normal.
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29-01-2023 09:47 PM
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29-01-2023 09:57 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
Hearing you @creative_writer . They were similar situations as you have describe which caused me to close up. I hardly talked for over 10 years.
Nowadays, people can't believe I used to barely talk, hardly socialised and lived under the blankets most of my life.
They think I'm the most sociable person - but I'm not. I'm actually quite nervous in social situations. But I know getting out is what I need. I don't want to go back to the way I was.
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29-01-2023 10:02 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
I'll be hopping off now @creative_writer . Hope you have a good rest. I'll catch up with you later in the week. I can tag you once I'm online 🙂
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