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17-03-2019 01:32 PM
17-03-2019 01:32 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Hi @Shaz51
This is a big deal - I guess you have known that this time would come - your mother is very frail and having joint replacement surgery could sap her self-confidence
Your health has been stressed through all of this and it would be easier for you to have your mother having 24/7 care - and this isn't selfish at all if your mother is ready to go into to supported care
Tough decisions though - and you think your mother might be developing dementia and this would be tougher to work through - but if she is ready to go into care - then she is ready - and the time you spend with her will be quality care
All the best from your second Mum
Dec
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17-03-2019 07:57 PM
17-03-2019 07:57 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
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17-03-2019 08:00 PM
17-03-2019 08:00 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Will be thinking of you @Shaz51
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17-03-2019 09:34 PM
17-03-2019 09:34 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Thinking of you @Shaz51 with all you have going on.
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17-03-2019 09:39 PM
17-03-2019 09:39 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
thank you @Determined , @Former-Member
sending you hugs and hope you are ok and stay strong xoxo
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18-03-2019 01:31 PM
18-03-2019 01:31 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
I wish your family the best @Shaz51 - this is not an easy time for a family
I know you will all have your mother's best interests at heart - she has been battling for a long time and now perhaps really does need more help that you can give her - but still somehow inside herself doesn't want to admit it
And you must consider your health as well - and Mr Shaz needs you at the best you can be - we all do
Sending my best thoughts
Dec
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18-03-2019 05:13 PM
18-03-2019 05:13 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Been thinking of you today.
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18-03-2019 06:15 PM
18-03-2019 06:15 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
And you must consider your health as well - and Mr Shaz needs you at the best you can be - we all do --- very true my amazing second mum @Owlunar
this afternoon was to reasurring my darling Mr shaz -- my poor darling , soo much going on and to tell him that everything is ok is hard
but with my love , mr shaz is right again now xoxo
we are looking forward to a week holiday in May which will be what we need xxx
meeting went well this morning @Former-Member , things are under way for mum to go home with help including me and my aunty xxx
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18-03-2019 08:13 PM
18-03-2019 08:13 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Please don't ever underestimate what a beautiful person you are.
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23-03-2019 07:25 PM
23-03-2019 07:25 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
mr shaz has the music up very loud tonight @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Determined , @Jacques , @Sophie1
having leftover pizza for dinner
found out some secrets from my cousin today about my mum , which I kinda knew but now i know