Hello and thank you for replying. I really do appreciate it. I see what your saying, I have just always thought that if my wife already has her mental health issues then if I was to let her know I was struggling, then it would just give her more to deal with. Perhaps you are right. She is an extremely loving and nurturing person. She is an amazing mother and my best friend. I've never been very open about my emotions growing up. I lost my father in my teen years and he asked me to be strong for my mum and my siblings. So I've always hidden any weaknesses I've had and been strong for people I love.I know it's wrong to do that. I have heard that before. I will try, I just don't want to cause any worries for my family. I don't know how to say it.