@Fingerlimei cannot type well because i have shakey hands due to medication.  mental illness has hit my family hard.  i was a carer for many years and then developed schizoaffective disorder myself.  my middle son has autism, schizophrenia, a mild intellectual delay and epilepsy. my daughter has epilepsy, depression chronic and autism high functioning some would say aspergers.  my eldest son has depression. 

i have been here since 2017 it is a wonderful forum site with a great bunch of people.  Talk soon greenpea