Hi. I am a parent to my 2 teenage daughters - both of which i am primary carer for.  I never expected to get divorced but its happening - mental health concerns is a major theme of tge divorce from teens to adults and not handelling it.  So I never in my widest dreams expected to be a single parent under any such circumstances yet here I am.

I don't like that ^ the above defines who I am.   I work in IT, I am a solutions architect-  I find solutions to computer system.   I like steam trains and I have played Eve Online (spaceships) for over 16 years.  I like to understanding how things work.  I want to be more connected (emotionally) with my kids.

I am here because it's hard doing everything and sometimes it feels like a burden I can't cope with.