Good afternoon everyone

I just joined the carers forum ad I am struggling with my 26 year old daughter who has a personality disorder following trauma from frequent operations and hospitalisation. Prior to 6 years ago she was travelling well studying and working part time but she began changing after a number of things. Her father remarried and has a new family and rarely sees her and she has abandonment issues which means she is very controlling of me. I’m exhausted and want to know if anyone can recommend a great psychologist who works with abandonment issues and personality disorders in the southern suburbs of Melbourne. I’m feeling burnt out and would love to talk to other carers.