Hi, everyone. I'm here as a partner(?) of a person who exhibits many BPD traits. I realise the tightrope I am on - there is no diagnosis or willingness to investigate it on her part; and I do appreciate many possible reasons. I've read a number of books on the topic and had some contact with health providers; joined a support group and now am here. The question mark with "partner(?)" is that again, this would be the 6th or 7th time now in 18 months or so that I'm on the outer. I just want to see what I can do - for me; for her.