Oh okay. Yes, I think that's also what I mean, real friends. At school from grade four to 12, I had a couple of girls that would one day be my friend, use me the next, say I can only hang out with them if I give them food, don't talk or something, then the next they would kick me out of the group and not talk to me and make me sit on my own in class and leave me out in other things. They were never true friend, and I've never really had that. I think that's what means more than people messaging me because if they were true friends, then they might message me. 

@Zoe7 

What do you think?