1@Former-Member 

Ive got a 34 year old son. His journey has been horrible, he began his University journey in his early 20s and he now has succeeded on getting his life course together with what he wants to do.

Ive had a difficult time with him 

and you supported me.

@Oaktree @Jynx @tyme @Meowmy  @Bill16 @TAB @Glisten others have supported me like @ENKELI @StuF 

I am grateful. And to see you also manage yourself is just lovely.

I got a carer back after some time. She’s come back after a 5 month break.

Over 20 years ago,…..I had a boyfriend who used to push me around. My Step Father, the man who was supposed to support me, knew him and he would tell me, stay with this person, he loves you. 
then behind my back he would laugh about me to my family.

Today, I had the most joy, telling this carer that though her boyfriend started up well for bout a month, she was in a dangerous position

not because he was pushing her around

he kept on asking for money and kept on living with his Mother. A 38 year old !!

i felt great that I could  reflect on a past experience and realise that I did not get the correct support. But I could let her know that this behaviour is not loving.