@tyme  or some one who may find a moment to solve a little mystery for me.  i followed your instuctions as well as a computor dummy can and thanks for your help. tryed in drafts, only saw older items in there 9th 10th of aug. and it took me to places where other peoples stuff was. to the left was a header called latest contributions but they contained mine and replies. tried to find where it might say your posts so i could see just what i had sent with a section that said failed to send .. resend.  like my phone does.  may i very politely on by knees begging ask you to save me a lot of frustration. when you said you saw my drafts i understood that to mean you saw the one i described. it is to bpd survivor and ends with the words ,  if you dont have a fire, then i hope the fire inside you keeps you warm. did you see that post?..  know you are busy, so if you can just tell me if you saw( that ) letter or not it will save all the comuter navigation letters.  its the only one i sent yesterday apart from all the ones to you trying to find it . yours in good faith , tonys