Hi @tonys 

Welcome to the forums.

You are doing a great job.

I had quick read of this thread, & I can understand (almost) everything you are saying and trying to work out.

If it makes you feel any better, I also found this SANE website a bit confusing when I first started. There are still things, I don't know how to do properly, or find it hard to go back & find the place that I was on before!

It's a bit different than many other websites. Hang in there, you are doing fantastic - & explaining yourself well too.

If you want to reply directly to someone:

Click on reply button (I know you already worked it out- to go to SANE & don't reply through your email)

Then when the new comment box open for you to type, type the @ symbol before someone name. Eg. @tonys 

A suggestion box will show up & you can click on user that way too, to make it easier.

Thankyou for posting. And I agree with @BPDSurvivor , you have been very gracious and kind. It is a pleasure to read your thread.

It is probably very frustrating - I think technology has a special way of frustrating everyone at times. Try to be kind to yourself - you are doing good.

Kind regards,

maddison