Oh wow!  Thank you so much @tyme, it honestly means a lot to me.  I always have to fight those 'inner doubts' every time I got to click that reply button.  Sometimes the doubts win, but mostly here the mouse button wins.  So it's really reassuring to read this.

A big thanks to you and everyone else here who makes it feel like such a safe place to share and open up and feel confident enough to do what I can to be as helpful and supportive as I find the awesome people here.