G'day @Jacques

Mate, I just want to apologise I havn't commented much at all lately, I've been doing it a bit tough, I've found when my mood drops even by a little, I suffer extreme writing block.

I can be in front of the computer, I know what I want to express, the words are in my head, but something stops them going from mind to fingers to keyboard.

I just want to let you know I have been around reading, and my thoughts are with you at the moment while things are difficult. 

I read all of your comments to others and you are such a caring and thoughtful person, the love you have shown to others in the "family" forum is beautiful. 

I know I wont be alone in saying this .... My hope for you, is that you will be able to see that thoughtful and caring person for yourself. 

One of the most insidious parts of MI is that it attacks the very parts that we need to "recover" ie motivation, self-care, self-love etc etc 

Again, I know I wont be alone in saying this, you're a great bloke Jacques, keep chipping away, even the small bits count, and I know one day you will be able to see for yourself the guy that i see.

always the best 

Wombat/Matt