Wow, thanks @tyme 

Ide say learning something from my ex husband which is positive affirmations have been one of the best experiences.  .....today I went to the bank with him to complain about these scammers frauding him out of his money his  livelihood. sending him to hospital for 2 months has been a highlight of my day today. 

We went in and lined up. People were surreptitiously  pushing behind us ......... how rude. 

A clearly unwell man at 57 years old. 

We were left to stand  inside in front of bank at a desk while I was explaining while we were there. How rude. 

The woman was speaking to us  I said ' I just want to be treated with good service,'  

So we are standing there whilst the bank people were all whispering discussing his case. 

Jeepers, how rude. I am very kindly saying. ' look he came into the branch, clearly unwell and asked if he had any money to take out. You allowed him to take $700 out of his account and then he discovers you allowed him to draw on An overdraft. 

They agreed and continued to whisper whisper. 

Grrrrrrrr. 

Poor man.