Hi @Mazarita thanks for understanding about potential triggers over the next week or so.  Last time half-sister was here she told me what she 'expected' of me by her next visit - it's echoed on me ever since.  I will be doing my best not to mention it.  It felt totally inappropriate given how little she's been in my life.  If she does it again I will tell her I am uncomfortable about her doing it - hopefully it won't be confrontational.

Glad to hear you got some more sleep.  How was the rest of your day?

I reckon if they're inspecting your flat less often they must be happy with you as tenants.