Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?

[Shaz51]

hello @outlander, @Former-Member, @Spookytookims, @CheerBear

[outlander]

@Spookytookims for what its worth i care but its really upsetting you but for now we cant do anything about it. i really hope you can push through this and move forward just as im ahving to do. your strong you know, even if you dont realise it. dont let this be apart of your new self

hi @Shaz51 hows your day been

[Spookytookims]

I wasnt talking about the stupid post @outlander

[outlander]

what were you refferring to @Spookytookims

[Spookytookims]

Exactly what I said @outlander   Why does everyone think there must be hidden meanings in words.   Yeah I read that actually,  when looking at the MBTI stuff, now Im seeing what it meant.  

Ok another lesson learned.

[outlander]

we were talking about the post @Spookytookims thats why i thought you were refferring to it. i didnt think there was a meaning in the msg but ive misinterpreted it and im sorry

[Spookytookims]

That's ok @outlander   

[Spookytookims]

@outlander  one thing I really admire about you is that if there is a misunderstanding you don't hesitate to take up the opportunity and immediately seek to clarify it.  That is so rare and so healthy and causes far less angst than ignoring it and not clarifying an issue.   You are way more mature than you think you are in a lot of areas.

[outlander]

thank you @Spookytookims i never realsied it i thought it was annoying people but im glad you see it as healthy. i dont want any tension between us- your very special to me

[Spookytookims]

@outlander  to me it is so much better to clarify... because otherwise things can fester totally needlessly just because of a misunderstanding.  Some people assume their side is right and if it isn't... well then it's a waste because bad decisions can be made on misunderstandings...  I prefer to clarify things too.  Or at least make the person aware there may be a misunderstanding and if they care enough, like you did, you'll try to find out what it might be and how to fix it.

So much more mature and productive... but then if others want to do it the other way, that is their choice also and I respect it.   Just for me, your way is better.  I can't speak for everyone of course only myself.