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Not Coping

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Heya @creative_writer ,

 

I'm pretty good. It's great to see you here. Hope today has been better for you. 

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So, you mean the aftermath of the abandonment? Maybe I just don't know how to cope when I feel like people don't care about me. Yeah, I know. I made a few friends, and then a couple of months later, they disappeared. This was last year. 

I'm an extrovert. I love being social and around people most of the time. I do find it hard when I have my depression clouding over me. @creative_writer 

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@Birdofparadise8 ,

 

Hope you are okay. How did the 'date' with your new friend go? (not sure if you call it a date).

 

I'm just looking around my house and there's clothes everywhere... argh... I really need to iron clothes lol.

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That was two weeks ago. It was nice. I hope it will become BF. 

We are meeting on Wednesday and going to the movies and then coming back to my place. @tyme 

Eh, not great if you see the post below. @tyme 

Washing, I feel you. I have some I need to iron as well. 

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@Birdofparadise8, I think you do need to click with people. Maybe they weren’t your people and that’s okay. You don’t need to fit everywhere. Maybe joining clubs may help you find friends with common interests. You have to broaden your social arisen and put yourself out there. Sometimes it’s not going to work and that’s okay.

Hi @tyme, nice to see you here too. I’m doing better today, had a really rough patch, I had to take PRN consecutively for three days which is not a usual occurrence, things were out of control. I am exhausted, so resting up. Ironing can take a lot of effort, I feel like my skirt needs ironing again, linen can be annoyingly prone to crinkling

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Oh no, the ones I've met this year are great. We are planning to meet again soon. They were a group of girls I met last year I didn't get on with @creative_writer 

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hi @Birdofparadise8 @creative_writer @tyme 

Hope all your evenings go well.

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@creative_writer , I'm so glad you've had some reprieve from the pain and are feeling better. I wonder if it's anything to do with the warmer weather?

 

@Birdofparadise8 , the trip to the movies sounds nice 🙂 Are you going to cook for him when he goes to your place? Also, do you realise how many people don't iron or don't even own an iron?

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@Birdofparadise8, I hope it works out with this group of girls 😊

Hi @Snowie, how are you doing?

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Hi @Snowie 

I couldn't belive that @tyme 

I only iron my dresses that need it and, when working, my work pants. 

Did you see my posts? 

Oh, and I'm not sure. The movie is in the avo, and we are having lunch and then going to the movie and will probably have something there. We can play it by year. 

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