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@Birdofparadise8 no apology necessary. What I mean is that sometimes I might be doing something and by the time I get to reply you've already gone to bed. That's what I mean by worry.

I'll be glad when daylight savings is over lol!

I am also trying to set my alarm and get up earlier in the morning so I can join more of the conversations as well as get more done around the house during the day. Today I spent several hours reading a book when I should have been doing house work. Oops! 😅

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Ah, okay I'm sorry that I worry you @ENKELI 

Hahaha, that's okay. 

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Better go now @ENKELI @Former-Member 

Night, thanks for chatting. Sorry to be so rushed. 
Talk tomorrow. 

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This will be the psychologist whom I will see @Birdofparadise8 🙂

my Gp put me in contact with her, and so I called. I finished all the intake forms today, and I’ll be seeing her on the 10th for the very first appointment 🌺

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Take good care @Birdofparadise8 🌺🙂

always lovely to chat

goodnight, catch you next time 💜

 

have a restful night @ENKELI 🌺🙂💜

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@Birdofparadise8 do I need to take your crown for a day?! No apologies, it's not your fault that I worry about you.

And honestly I'd rather be a worrier than some who doesn't care.

 

Sleep well princess 💕

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Why do you want to take my crown @ENKELI

That is true. I guess if you didn't care about people, you probably wouldn't be on here. 

Hey @Former-Member 

That's good. I hope she will be helpful for you. I remember my first session. It's always anxiety-provoking. Will you do Zoom or in person?

Thanks for the well wishes last night. Sorry I ran off so quickly @ENKELI @Former-Member 

What are you both doing today? 

 

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Hey there @Birdofparadise8 🙂🌺

thank you regarding the psychologist ☺️

Zoom will work best I think, considering I’ll have to take cleaning/sanitising stuff for the chair and other stuff I’ll come into contact with which is a bit cumbersome. 

no worries at all - please , no apology is needed whatsoever ☺️🌺

 

I’ve had a slow day, trying to get cleaning done before the shoulder injection on Monday (but with a sore shoulder it’s going a bit slower than usual), otherwise thinking I should get to study a bit more 🙂

how about you? ☺️

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Ah yes, that would make it hard @Former-Member 

Yes, it would. Can any friends or family help you?

Yeah, I need to study as well. There is work going on in the car park next door so it's very noisy. 

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Yes indeed - logistics.. I think with the amount of logistical contingency I have learned over the last few years, I could run my own logistics company haha 🤭😁😉

 

I don’t have any family, and I don’t have any friends, so I do everything alone. It would be difficult to have someone help pretty much, anyway - I’d have to clean the house after they left… low immunity. 
It’s ok 🌺

 

Oh - I’m sorry to hear it’s noisy there..I used to study with earplugs in, or use noise cancelling earphones with white noise playing (water sounds). 
Would you like to or have you tried something like that dearest? 🙂🌺

 

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