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15-08-2016 01:08 PM
15-08-2016 01:08 PM
hi im new
hi im aj ive used my actual nickname that i get called wich is used more than my name. i was introduced to the forum by a friend who thinks ill benefit from it i suffer from 4 anxiety disorders, GAD, PTSD, social anxiety and panic disorder. yes i do have PTSD no i was not in the army just a really really messed up childhood. i am 23 im engaged and i have i 4 yr old and 8 angel babies all miscarriges at diferent stages of pregnancy im not good a childhood reflecting although if asked i do tell ppl what i have been through unless i believe they will either be triggered or just wont believe that i have really been through that much. i do like to meet ppl who have been through similar to myself but i dislike ppl that turn their issues into a compitition of who has the worst. anyway im probably rambling now im gunna leave it at that
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15-08-2016 05:51 PM
15-08-2016 05:51 PM
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Welcome @Former-Member
thanks for being so open and sharing something about yourself
I think you'll really enjoy the forums 'topic tuesday' tomorrow night (in which a separate thread has a live conversation on a particular subject, often with guest presenter) it's about trauma.
This will also give you a sense of who may be in a similar boat to yourself and a chance to talk about this with others, please join us 7pm-9pm.
Maybe you might like to share how you manage living with an anxiety disorder/s, and what helps day to day??
What do you hope to get from the forums @Former-Member?
Again, welcome.
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15-08-2016 07:52 PM
15-08-2016 07:52 PM
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I posted a speel on flashbacks yesterday if you want to take a look, and really hope to see you on 'Topic Tuesday' tomorrow, being about trauma.
Maybe drop over to 'night shift' thread some time, any time, usually lots of activity there.
Welcome again 🙂
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15-08-2016 07:56 PM
15-08-2016 07:56 PM
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Hi,
Welcome to the forums, i'm really glad you're here. From what i've seen here on the forums there's been a pretty even mix of people with a range of causes of PTSD from workplace related (first responders like police etc), to people who've had traumatic childhoods (me too), domestic violence (sadly me too), to other traumatic incidents as well.
I'm sorry to hear of your angel babies, but glad you're able to include them. I have two children a girl who's almost 8 and boy who's 5.
I've struggled alot with the symptoms of anxiety and ptsd which has stopped me from being able to enjoy alot of my life at times, but i guess slowly moving forwards 🙂 though i'm my own worst critic.
hope to see you around the forums more! Once again welcome!
LJ
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15-08-2016 11:30 PM
15-08-2016 11:30 PM
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Hi AJ1,
Welcome to the forums. At 23 you have experienced a lot. I can appreciate your PTSD, and can relate to yours not from being in the armed forces. My PTSD was diagnosed at age 21, triggered by time in hospital at age 3. I wasn't in the armed forces either. 🙂 Most of my issus have only been diagnosed in the past 4 years, and are now being treated. By the way, I am now 46.
I dont know what you are going through, but I do know that you have what it takes to continue. Your being on this forum means that you are actively doing something for support, and in some ways, direction.
All the best to you..
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16-08-2016 03:28 AM
16-08-2016 03:28 AM
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I know what you mean about types who are into competitiveness in pain .. emotional or physical
I am getting used to letting them 'win' and retreating ... I cant think of any other way to deal with it.
They 'lose' me.
Your post filled me with respect. Thanks for sharing .. no rambling .. it seemed brief and spot on to me.
I will think of your angel babies tonight when I think of my own people who have crossed over.
regards Apple
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16-08-2016 01:34 PM
16-08-2016 01:34 PM
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thanks i am going to try and be on tonight but it will depend on what goes on today
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16-08-2016 03:51 PM
16-08-2016 03:51 PM
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This is a safe site to say whatever you need to & there is no judgements. What I dislike morethan competing as to who is sicker or had the worse cchildhood - is those not of the MI community who love to give advice as to how to live our lives and 'get over' it all. I laugh at them now. I don't like to waste my time with idiots.
You will find a number of people on this site who will have similar experiences to you. Hopefully they will be able to share with you what you need & vise versa (I can't spell today - mind blank).
Anyway. Just wanted to say hello & glad you found this site.
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16-08-2016 06:13 PM
16-08-2016 06:13 PM
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thank the reason i put in that i was not in the army is that most people i tell that i have ptsd they immeadiatly ask was i in the army i even had someone say that only ppl who have been in the army can get ptsd it really does get annoying because im suppose to be forth coming about my mental illnesses but ppl dont believe or think it an exsageration then are freaked out when i have an attack or if im there over night if i have a night terror they think they should try and wake me as they have never had to deal with someone who experiences them
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16-08-2016 10:00 PM
16-08-2016 10:00 PM
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My bf wanted to know what to do to help. I explained how my panic attacks coukd occur out of the blue and how I needed to remember I'm safe and to do my breathing exercise. Last attack was at her house. Her family surrounded me during my attack. Then my bf comes over - tells them to go away & gives the 'look' (don't argue with me - lol). Then tells me I'm safe. I'm in a safe place. Breath in etc etc. she just kept repeating it. It was my shortest attack ever and the last one I've had.
It's important our friends know what can happen and what we do or do not need when it happens.