Not Coping

[Blackbird11]

Hope your appointment goes well @Shaz51 hugs 💚

[Birdofparadise8]

What's wrong with your bones @Shaz51 

Do you have osteoporosis.

[Birdofparadise8]

Aww @Blackbird11 

You are too kind. You have been so wonderful to me. 

I hope it will get better one day. It feels like it's been so long. 

[Blackbird11]

Yes going through the hard stuff takes time and appears endless but it will change. New things will come and old things will go, just like our breath inhale... exhale.

 

[Birdofparadise8]

That is very true @Blackbird11 

[Birdofparadise8]

Oh no, I just found out my friend that I have has got a full-time job next year doing a placement, and it's not near me. I'll get to see him even less then. Between his work, my work and uni. We probably won't be able to see each other. Now I'm crying over that @Blackbird11 

Don't get me wrong. I'm so happy he got the job, but I'm being selfish and thinking about myself and not seeing him. 

[Birdofparadise8]

Now I'm even more alone @Blackbird11 

[Blackbird11]

That's a wonderful opportunity for your friend @Birdofparadise8  sad for you though 😢 keep looking for friends, who knows if you get this job and you might find friends there. We're here for you 💚

[Birdofparadise8]

In every job I've had, I'm always the youngest by a mile. Admin in a hospital, you don't see many 20-year-olds there @Blackbird11 

Am I selfish though, thinking about myself? 

[Blackbird11]

You're not selfish @Birdofparadise8, be gentle with yourself 💚 

You seem like a good conversationalist and I'm sure you will be able to find friends. Trust the process.