Not Coping

[Birdofparadise8]

What does BOPS DO IT mean @ArraDreaming 

[ArraDreaming]

Yeah they do! @Birdofparadise8 they look very alike when they next to each other you can definitely tell

[ArraDreaming]

he doesn’t let anyone help him because he wants to do it @Birdofparadise8 lol

[Birdofparadise8]

That's cute @ArraDreaming 

I wish I could hurry up and find a man so I can have children. 

If I don't meet anyone by the time I'm 29, I will look into a donor. 

Oh is BOPS what he called himself?

[ArraDreaming]

yeah, bops, the little weirdo 😂 and yells at us if we try and help @Birdofparadise8

Still time after that! I wouldn’t be in any hurry don’t get me wrong I love my family but there is nothing stopping you from living a bit first then kids later there is no special order to this… I didn’t think I would have kids or not for a long while and now I’m 29 with 3 but I also know people in their 30s just starting a family now

[ArraDreaming]

hardest job i’ve ever had but equally the most fun and rewarding @Birdofparadise8

[ArraDreaming]

Our house is loud! and busy!

[Birdofparadise8]

Yeah, know, I just don't want to have kids after I'm 34 at the late as my mum had me at 35/6, I think, and now she is 56, and I'm 20, while a lot of parents of kids my age, we know in our circle are much younger. 

However, I've got 10 years so I'm sure I'll meet the right one. 

I have very particular standards. 

I'm sure it would be @ArraDreaming 

I don't want one kid like I am as it's lonely, at least two, but I'm not sure about three. It would be a lot. 

[Birdofparadise8]

Is your wife home as well? 

Is she on mat leave? @ArraDreaming 

[Former-Member]

@Birdofparadise8  

you’re such a sweetheart to ask - so kind of you to offer 💜🌺🤗

Im ok thanks - nothing that can be done besides home or hospital for a heart being a pain in the chest/backside 😉

It’s only sadness and disappointment when I can’t spend time doing what I need to do, and being confined to bed. Otherwise mentally I am ready to chew through a bunch of research articles, do a bunch of appraisals, and get back to the research teams with the gaps 🌺🙂

I haven’t worked out the trick to getting papers to levitate above me here so I can read and highlight 😉

the ones I have electronically I’ll read on my phone and annotate for later. 

speaking of, I better get to it. 

have a good afternoon, and go gently 🌺