Not Coping

[Birdofparadise8]

Hahaha, very funny @ArraDreaming 

I just don't think I'll find any way to fill that role. I live in a shared house, and I don't have a boyfriend. 

My psych does it for one hour a week so that's about it. 

[ArraDreaming]

I’m going to ask you again, who decided that will never happen for you?
because it sure as hell looked like it would never happen for me, it somehow did and my wife is a catch

[ArraDreaming]

somehow puts up my bs all the time and is still here, poor thing

[Birdofparadise8]

Yeah, no one did, I guess. 

I'm just not optimistic about things right now. @ArraDreaming 

[ArraDreaming]

Yep fair enough maybe I pushed you too far, just trying to challenge you…. @Birdofparadise8 food for thought maybe

[Birdofparadise8]

I noticed you were @ArraDreaming 

It's okay. There is just a lot going on around me and in my mind. I don't see how I will get over RO. 

[Zoe7]

Hey @ArraDreaming Great advice buddy 👍

In order to change one's minset @Birdofparadise8 we have to want to do so. Instead of saying you are likely going to cry can you say "crying is an option but I choose not to do so tonight"?

[Birdofparadise8]

What if I'm feeling like crying, though @Zoe7 

[ENKELI]

@Birdofparadise8 how was dinner?
Do you have a TV in your room and do you/parents pay for Disney etc, or is that provided by the Uni?

I always wanted to stay on campus when I was at Uni, I should have chosen NIDA instead of WAAPA.

I don't want to add to the discussion you're having with others, I feel I would probably say the wrong thing or confuse you so unless you ask my opinion I will keep mum about it okay?

[ArraDreaming]

See mate, I just don’t think having the same conversation about this is helpful for you you are just going in circles buddy, over and over, and I’m not saying this to upset you but you have to stop letting it consume your everything thought and conversation you are getting yourself into a spin over it, I get you are uosey but this is not helpful for you… not one thing. I’m going to leave this convo not because I’m angry or upset because I’m not, but I don’t feel like it’s beneficial to keep talking about your pain it’s ok to talk about it for sure that’s why we are here, but there comes a time where it’s not healthy.
I’m going to, I have pushed you enough tonight and it’s not fair to keep going, I’m just spit balling some ideas 💡

Its late on a Sunday i have to go clean my house 😂 see what I did there

Cya buddy, please, take a rest from this for a little though.