Am Not Coping

[Shaz51]

I know @Former-Member 

you know what I wanted to say but I didn`t

[Shaz51]

hello my sister @Zoe7, how are you this afternoon ??

and how is our Toby and the cat xx

[Former-Member]

Ha yes I think I do know @Shaz51, I know what I would have said (most likely in a loud tone)

[Zoe7]

@Shaz51 I'm not great but I'm trying. Toby and Cat are good - Toby hasn't left my side all day!

[Zoe7]

@Faith-and-Hope You give me sunrises so I'll give you the sunset tonight... 

[Shaz51]

@Former-Member 

Toby hasn't left my side all day! --  yes I thought soo, since you went away , my cat is like that xx

Ohhh my sister @Zoe7, holding your hand xx, if you want to chat we are here for you , or i can sit with you xxx

[Zoe7]

Thankyou @Shaz51 my sister but I don't think talking anymore today is a good idea. Whilst I am just holding it together let's sit with that for the time being 

[Faith-and-Hope]

Image hasn't come through yet @Zoe7 ....

@Shaz51 ..... that's my mil ..... did everything including hand washing her son's shirts as they came off their backs, half drying them on the line, then ironing them the rest of the way dey and returning gem to the wardrobe in case they wanted to wear the same shirt again that same day ..... often it had only been worn for an hour or less to begin with ..... washes towels after single uses .... made their beds as they got out of them even as adults ..... perfectionists create unattainable expectations ...... "nobody is as good as mum" challenge ..... then sits back and critiques the wives or tries to micro-manage them .....

Okay. Whinge over ....

[Shaz51]

I love to sit with you my sister @Zoe7 

[Shaz51]

we are here for you my wonderful friend @Faith-and-Hope, sending you knowing hugs