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31 Aug 2021 08:03 PM
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31 Aug 2021 08:04 PM
For me @Former-Member
I need to think before I talk , and picking the right time is important and also I will throw In suggestions and then say no more until the next opportunity @cloudcore , @Daisydreamer
31 Aug 2021 08:05 PM
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31 Aug 2021 08:05 PM
@JungleGiants wrote:
It sure is @Daisydreamer, and different in most situations ive found. Not really an option to ignore people at work if they annoy you..
Why not? LOL. Meh? If you ignore them, hopefully they'll leave you alone 🙂 Jokes
31 Aug 2021 08:09 PM
31 Aug 2021 08:09 PM
Question 5: What do you do if you feel unsafe? What supports are available?
31 Aug 2021 08:10 PM - edited 31 Aug 2021 08:11 PM
31 Aug 2021 08:10 PM - edited 31 Aug 2021 08:11 PM
Question 5: What do you do if you feel unsafe? What supports are available?
If you feel unsafe during or after an argument or anticipate that you would not be safe if you communicate and enforce your boundaries, contact a support line about how to best manage the situation.
1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
The Line 1800 695 463 (1800 MYLINE)
SANE Australia 1800 187 263 (Managing relationship where mental health issues are present)
WIRE 1300 134 130
Face to face counselling
If you are currently unsafe, please contact 000 for emergency services. In states like NSW and Victoria, you are also allowed to leave home for safety reasons and to seek out DFV related services during lockdown.
31 Aug 2021 08:11 PM
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31 Aug 2021 08:17 PM - edited 31 Aug 2021 08:21 PM
31 Aug 2021 08:17 PM - edited 31 Aug 2021 08:21 PM
Sorry, @Daisydreamer . It wasn't my intention to try to hijack the conversation off into another direction.
I should have kept the language within the topic-at-hand bounds of small-scale relationships, where the overall concept is still extremely relevant (IMHO, at least).
e.g. If, within my own household, I want to go, but the other people there want me to stay - why is it wrong for me to do what's right for me?
(Edit: Apologies if this is still OT. Feel free to ignore this if it is.)
31 Aug 2021 08:17 PM
31 Aug 2021 08:17 PM
Question 6: What are some ways to look after ourselves after household/relationship conflict? What are your best tips for self-care?
31 Aug 2021 08:17 PM
31 Aug 2021 08:17 PM
I have found it great that video and voice calls are back, even if they cant replace face to face contact. Thats something good ive found in lockdown 2
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